The advice isn't wrong. It just wasn't written for your child.
Human Design shows you the child you have, not the one the advice assumes.
Your child makes complete sense. Not once they grow out of it, and not once you find the right approach. Right now, exactly as they are. You just haven't been handed the map yet.
Maybe you've tried what works for everyone else. The routines, the reward charts, the gentle scripts your friends swear by. In their house it works. In yours it lands differently, or it doesn't land at all, and you're left wondering whether it's something you're doing, or something you're missing.
It isn't a failure of effort, and it isn't a difficult child. Parenting advice assumes every child needs the same things; however, we know every child is unique. Once you understand your child's design, you know when they need to move, when they need to be left alone, and what their no really means. The second-guessing stops, and parenting gets easier.
You're not doing it wrong. You've just been parenting without the map. There's one for your child. And there's one for you, too.
The questions you don't ask out loud.
You don't need more advice. You need the handbook to your unique design, and your child's.
"What if I'm getting this wrong and can't see it?"
"I never get five minutes to myself, so why am I this lonely?"
"Why is it so much easier with one of them?"
"Why does all this research leave me more confused?"
"You're not failing. You've just never been shown your unique design."
Once you can see your design, and your child's, the guessing gets a lot quieter. Here's what that looks like ↓
What is Human Design?
Human Design is a practical framework for how you and your child are wired: how you each make decisions, use energy, and recharge. It's calculated from your birth details, and here's the best part; once you know your design, you know it, it's not another thing on your to-do list.
There are five energy types. Your child has one, and so do you. When they're different what works for you can miss completely for them. When they're the same it's easy to assume they'll work the way you do, and that's its own trap. Same type, different child.
It's also why siblings can need completely different approaches, if advice hasn't landed on your child that's usually the reason. It was written for a different design.
Tap to explore the different energy types
Generator
Steady, capable, and happiest when they're deep in something they chose. Give them a blank canvas and they'll stall, give them something to respond to and their engine turns over.
Manifesting Generator
Fast, multi-passionate, three things on the go at once. It looks like they never finish anything. Usually, they're skipping the middle bit that didn't need doing.
Projector
Watches everything, knows things they shouldn't know yet, and runs out of steam before the other kids do. Not fragile. Built to see rather than to keep going.
Manifestor
Acts first and tells you later and digs in hard when they're told what to do. It reads as defiance; it's an urge to start that doesn't think to ask first.
Reflector
The rarest design, around 1% of people in the system. They take on the mood of whatever room they're in, so a hard day often says more about the room than about the child.
"Your child isn't a harder version of someone else's; they're a different design."
You don't have to do all the things. You just have to understand the small human in front of you, and the woman raising them.
And while you're at it, grab your own too.
28 years of mothering. 22 years of working with women.
Training in mind-body practice, NLP, emotional intelligence and mindset, alongside an ongoing study of Human Design.
I raised three children before anyone handed me the map
same road, further alongI had my first baby at 19, and three of them by the time I was 22. My husband and I came to Perth 27 years ago without knowing a single soul, and with his 24-year Navy career came six-month stretches at sea, so I did a lot of it on my own. No village, no family nearby, and no handbook.
My three babies are adults now, building families and lives of their own, and they still choose me, not out of duty, but because they want to. From musicals to music festivals, family holidays, Sundays on the couch binge-watching something juicy, and long meals where nobody wants to be the first to leave, just in case they miss something. You'll always spot us in a restaurant, just look for the loudest table.
I'll be the first to tell you that none of it was polished. I got plenty wrong, and there are things I'd do very differently if I had my time again. But I kept turning up, and I kept saying yes while I was absolutely terrified, and it turns out that counts for far more than getting it right. So, if things feel a bit frayed at your place right now, I've yet to meet the thing that can't be mended.
I found Human Design long after they were grown, and the first thing I did was look at their designs. It explained so much of what I'd spent years turning over. Why one of them had to learn everything by their own mistakes. Why another ran flat out and then hit a wall. Why the way I asked a question landed completely differently with each of them, and why what worked beautifully for one was useless for the next.
Nothing about either of you needs fixing.
So that's the work I do now. I look at your child's design, and at yours, and turn both into something you can actually use in your home this week. You won't leave with another approach to try, you'll leave with the reason the ones you've already tried haven't quite been the right fit.
Here's what that looks like when we work together. ↓
Plain English, and something to try tonight
Most of us were never handed our own design, let alone our child's.
First, the chart
Your child's birth details, and yours. Explained in plain English, with no glossary and nothing to decode.
Then your child
What they need and one thing to try this week. Some need to run flat out before bed, others need far less coming at them.
Then the two of you
Energy type is the doorway, not the whole picture. What's unique to each of you, and how the two designs meet day to day.
Start free. Go deeper when you're ready.
Pull your free chart
Pop in your birth details, then your child's. Two minutes, and no cost.
Not sure of your birth time? Put in your best guess. I'll show you what changes if it turns out to be different.Understand yourself. Understand your child. Meet them halfway.
Three ways in, and none of them is the wrong one.
The First Step
You, or your child
- 1 x 60 minute live video session
- One person's design, yours or one child's, explained in everyday language. Nothing to decode, nothing to look up
- A personalised PDF guide within 48 hours: practical next steps you can start straight away
- The recording, yours to download and keep
- 7 Days of Q+A support
Meeting Halfway
Knowing it, then living it
- 2x 60-minute live video sessions, weekly or fortnightly, your choice
- A 15-minute call before we start, to tailor your live sessions so they are shaped around what you need
- Session one is your design, session two is your child's, and where the two of you meet
- Two personalised PDF guides, within 48 hours of the session it belongs to
- Both recordings, yours to download and keep
- 14 Days of Q+A Support
"By the time we finish, it isn't a technique you're trying. It's just how your house runs now."
$449 AUD Book Meeting HalfwayThe Whole Way
Four sessions, at your pace, and me beside you for all of it.
The single sessions hand you the map. This one walks it with you.
You set the pace. Weekly for momentum, fortnightly if you need life to happen in between. Over 4-8 weeks what you will walk away with is the whole point: less second-guessing, a calmer home, and a child you finally understand.
You won't do any of it alone. I'm in your pocket for the whole time we're working together, for the wobbly moments, the wins, and the "okay but what do I do when she melts down at the school gate".
$649 AUD · Foundation pricing Book The Whole Way- 1You. Mum first, always, because you're the foundation this whole house is built on.
- 2Implementation and coaching. We let it land, and work through what's actually showing up in your week.
- 3Your child. The little person who's felt hardest to work out finally starts to make sense.
- 4The connection. How your two designs work together, and how to create harmony where they meet, with coaching on the real challenges in your home right now.
- A 15-minute call before we start, to tailor your live sessions so they are shaped around what you need
- Three personalised PDF guides, each within 48 hours: yours, your child's, and one for the connection between you
- In your pocket between every session, so you're never left to work it out on your own
- Every recording, yours to download and keep
Session two is coaching, so there's no guide for that one. Just the work.
Know a mum who needs this? You can gift a single session. Email me at hello@kimmurakami.com for a gift certificate.
Not sure where to start?
Book a free 15-to-20-minute discovery call. A real conversation, not a sales pitch: where you're at, what's feeling hard, and whether this work is for you.
Book a free discovery callWhat mothers say after working with me
“It’s a priceless resource.”
"Kim gave me a HD reading for my son when he was a few weeks old and I found it so interesting, but WOW, reading it now that he's 6 months old just HITS DIFFERENT.
Everything that is in the reading is spooky-accurate and I love the practical ways I can apply this knowledge to nurture his specific energetic type, which is SO different to mine.
I HIGHLY recommend this as a tool for parents who want to nurture their child's natural abilities and gifts. It's a priceless resource."
✦Breanna May✦Mindset & Emotional Intelligence Expert✦
4/6 Sacral Manifesting Generator
“It gave me tangible ways to strengthen our connection.”
"I honestly didn't know just how much I would get out of a Human Design reading until I had a session with Kim. I decided to book a reading with my middle daughter, who is naturally a little quieter, because I wanted to understand her more deeply. Looking back, it's one of the best things I've done for both of us.
Kim has such a beautiful way of explaining everything. She took me back through the foundations of my own Human Design before helping me understand my daughter's, and then showed us how our designs work together. There were so many moments where I found myself thinking, 'That makes so much sense.'
After our session, I received the most beautifully presented document. It wasn't just a summary of our charts, it was full of practical, personalised suggestions that I could actually apply in everyday parenting. It gave me tangible ways to strengthen our connection and better support who she naturally is.
Even now, I still come back to what I learnt. Understanding how my daughter is designed to make decisions has changed the way I support and empower her. Instead of expecting her to respond the way I would, I can meet her where she's at, and I truly believe it's strengthened both her confidence and our relationship.
The whole experience has left me wanting to learn more about myself, my family and Human Design as a whole. If you've ever been curious, I couldn't recommend Kim more highly. It was insightful, practical, and such a beautiful investment in understanding both yourself and the people you love."
✦Jen Cuttriss✦Sleep Consultant & Early Parenting Coach✦
2/4 Sacral Manifesting Generator
“Yes… that makes so much sense.”
"One of the most valuable things I've done recently as a mum has been gaining a deeper understanding of my boys through Human Design.
A huge thank you to Kim Murakami for creating personalised reports for Austin and Lincoln. There were so many moments reading them where I thought, 'yes… that makes so much sense.'
Understanding how they navigate emotions and interact with the world has given me such a different lens through which to understand and support them.
My favourite part was the practical guidance on how I can actually work with their individual designs in everyday life, rather than expecting the same approach to work for both of them.
I know these are reports I'll keep coming back to as they grow and we see more of their Human Design unfold.
Thank you Kim, for giving me such a valuable resource to help nurture my two sons in a way that honours who they're uniquely designed to be 💙💙"
✦Hannah Y✦Real Estate Agent✦
2/4 Sacral Manifesting Generator
“So many ‘aha!’ moments.”
"Having Kim do my Human Design reading was such an insightful experience. I wanted to understand myself on a deeper level and learn how to work with my design.
The report was thoughtfully put together, and I loved the little experiments and practical things to try throughout. The in-person session brought so many "aha!" moments! It was fascinating to see some of my behaviours from a different perspective and let go of some of the shame or judgement I'd attached to them.
I got so much from my own reading that I asked Kim to do my son's as well, including looking at how our designs work together.
This has been incredibly valuable for parenting. Kim gave me simple things to try that work with his design, and understanding how our energy centres can influence each other has helped me pause, breathe and respond differently in challenging moments.
I highly recommend Kim, especially if you're curious about Human Design and want to explore yourself, your parenting or your family dynamics through a new lens. Her approach is thoughtful, insightful and practical."
✦Sarah B✦Project Manager✦
5/2 Self Projected Projector
“That makes SO much sense!”
"Having briefly dabbled in Human Design in the past, I was so excited to get my kids' charts done by Kim and go that little bit deeper into understanding who they are and what makes each of them so unique.
Kim is incredibly knowledgeable and made everything so easy to understand. Having three very different kids, it was fascinating seeing their individual designs mapped out in front of me and having so many of those "Ohhh… that makes SO much sense!" moments.
What surprised me most was seeing the differences between my identical twins. Despite being born only minutes apart and being raised in the same environment, their charts really highlighted just how individual they are.
I walked away feeling like I understood each of my kids a little more deeply and had a completely different lens through which to see them.
I absolutely loved my reading with Kim and couldn't recommend her highly enough. If you're curious about Human Design and want to understand more about why you are the way you are, or why your kids respond to the world the way they do, I'd definitely recommend booking in."
✦Stacey✦NLP & Reiki Practitioner✦
4/6 Sacral Generator
The most consistent feedback I get is that I'm easy to talk to. Mothers tell me things they haven't told their closest friends.
This space is for the real you and the discovery to find her.
And what we talk about stays with you. Clients circle back days, weeks, even months later with "I thought about what you said and..." The work isn't just in the room. It works on a random Wednesday at 3pm.
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